Sunday, March 17, 2013

Dear Sa-Nekhet, aka lover of my life,


(said with all the excitement in the world) Hi baby!

I imagine that you are just getting in from service. Ah yes, I can hear Embahra chanting… I see the smile on Khumyri’s face, literally stretching from ear to ear … and SaHura beckoning to try on one of our motorcycle helmets…I can see Peanut overjoyed about your return home, wagging his tail, and trying his absolute hardest to wait for you to take him outside. lol Yes. These are frequents that I miss and think about with regularity. My prayer is that you all are keeping warmhearted energies in close proximity with your spirits in the midst of all that dirty Jersey weather. (boo-hiss to the extended winter). Of course, I am always and especially sending warm energies your way, beloved.

I can’t tell you how delighted I was at hearing Peanut in the background of our skype convo. How cute was that when he barked a ‘WATTUP!’ from East Orange for Nikki, my host family’s dog, who then in return, barked an ‘¡HOLA!’ in response! Indeed, these are one of the many unique moments of our journey that make me laugh out loud with appreciation for the attributes of who we are—love, drive, growth, play, being, breath, and laughter… and that’s LAUGHTER with a big ‘I love us!’ kind of exclamation point at the end of it.

I read and reread the words you wrote in my journal and I am always caught at “I am in a state of vulnerable joy to partake in this bountiful feast of life giving sustenance with you…thrilled at the unknown… each step gives birth to wonders…”

These words come with me everywhere I go, but I am particularly entrenched in them and they in me when I experience a moment of bliss here in Costa Rica. For instance, today, I went hiking again up the Altos Mountain and experienced absolute bliss! This time, I went alone so that I could simply hear the heartbeat of the earth, talk to God, and be gone. It’s about 13 kilometers of a straight incline and it typically takes about 6 to 8 hours. Now, I should say that bliss is not an immediate response when climbing this mountain. The first 40 minutes feel like torture! I’m not quite sure why. Honestly, the air is thinner as the incline steepens and the road is less traveled the more you travel upward, thus less paved when nearest the top. At the very very top, there are no roads. There are no trails, no automobiles, and very few people—just life. But logically speaking, the top of the mountain should feel more difficult to climb and not the beginning.

Today, I started coming up with explanations as to why the first moments of the climb are so discouraging—not just for me, but everyone I know who has experienced it. Perhaps it is because the automobiles and motorcycles that zoom by come with the ever-present reminder of our own lack of comfort during the climb—everything on your body is suddenly burning… me personally, whenever I stop to take a breather during the first 40 minutes, it’s like my heart and I get into this deep discussion. She’s like ‘Is you fo’real?!’ And I’m like, ‘Yeah, believe it or not, we’re that crazy’.

Or, perhaps the first moments are toughest because the locals who are used to the climb [which are typically elderly women and or young children] seem to go at the mountain with incredible ease. I’m sure they can point out the amateurs; instead, they only smile and nod as they pass our limp bodies gasping for air. Even after going up several times since my stay, there is still a sense of unpredictability, wonder, and something to see from a matchless perspective, or something that I missed entirely during my prior trips up. Yet and still, the sheer physical and emotional panic of the toughness during the first few minutes is always the same. It’s like I am coming loose from the umbilical cord of all the luxuries of civilization I know behind me— and all the people, the cars, the success I witness of others during my struggle up are mere reminders of everything I am leaving behind on flat ground. Many people turn back at this point. I almost did my first time.

It’s usually around this point when I turn around to see how far I’ve come and catch the miraculous view of the earth. It’s beauty is sensory overload! My heart continues to beat but stands still; it intertwines itself with the pulse of the earth. It is then, I am sincerely wishing I could share that moment of exquisite and vulnerable joy with you, man. Seriously! My heart is like, ‘Oh my gosh, he would love this!—the smell of it, the taste of it etc… where is that wonderful man of mine? I miss him so’ …

These are the moments that I am thrilled at the unknown and truly, each step gives birth to new wonders, just like you said. In fact, I’ve concluded that there’s not a moment of joy I experience that I don’t wish to share with you, handsome. If ever you doubted for even a mere second, please rest assured in knowing how much joy you bring me.

Any who, I’ll go before I go and get any mushier for all the readers, but please send Peanut a little puppy love from me to him.

Miss’n you on the daily, man, lover, closest friend, and partner in stopping crime,

I love you with my mind, body, heart & soul.
Be well

*Besos*

Shem e em hetep

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